| Survey: Children of Intermarriage Identify as Jews Some of the Time Fishkoff, Sue News story on a 2005 survey of adult children of intermarried parents that showed a high level of Jewish cultural identification and interest in Jewish studies, combined with low levels of childhood Jewish education and religious attachment. Date: 5/24/2005Thoughts on Being a Bubbie Tupa, Mae Personal narrative by a bubbie (Jewish grandmother), all of whose grandchildren are being raised as Jews, despite changes in a family complexion due to divorce and intermarriage. Date: 1/17/2006Mixed Background Times Three Nobleman, Marc Tyler Personal narrative in which an American Jewish man recounts the religious, historical, and cultural tensions of dating and marrying a German Protestant woman. Date: 6/7/2005Differences? Mann, Paulette Personal narrative by grandmother whose husband died describing the sweet and sensitive responses of all of her grandchildren, those raised Jewish and those raised Christian, and the support she felt from all of them. Date: 5/24/2005When Judaism Isn’t Kosher Weintraub, David Personal narrative from a proud secular Jew raised in Yiddish schools, extolling the values and strength of secular Judaism--especially in an interfaith marriage. Date: 4/26/2005A Secular, Blended Passover Felsen, Michael Personal narrative article describing a secular Passover celebration at the Workman's Circle. Date: 3/27/2006Why We Call Them Intercultural Weddings: A Secular Humanistic Jewish Approach Jerris, Miriam Professional advice explaining the position of Secular Humanistic Jews, who accept intermarriage as the joining of people from two different backgrounds yet similar values. Thoughts on Secular Conversion: An Important Alternative to Religious Conversion Beilin, Yossi Op-ed from a prominent Israeli leader on why those who wish to be identified as Jews should be granted the right to join the Jewish people on the basis of their own self-definition--not on the definition of the Orthodox religious establishment. Date: 10/1/1999Who She Was Freedman, Samuel G. Personal narrative about a man's mother, who had wanted to intermarry when she was young, but gave in to her mother's strong opposition and married a Jew. Date: 8/2/2005Connecting with Judaism Because of My Secular Spouse Hagler, Gina Personal narrative from an intermarried non-Jewish woman who agreed to raise her children Jewish, but didn't realize her husband was a secular Jew. Date: 5/10/2005How My Hunger for History Helped Me Reclaim My Judaism Eisenfeld, Sue Personal narrative by a secular Jewish woman who, after reading The Red Tent by Anita Diamant, became interested in Judaism and Jewish history, and decided to fast on Yom Kippur for the first time in her life. Date: 9/20/2005The Best of InterfaithFamily.com: Our Picks Compilation of InterfaithFamily.com's staff's selections for their favorite articles from 1998-2006. Date: 1/16/2007An Intercultural Celebration Mahony, Karin Personal narrative article about a born Catholic woman who converted to Judaism, as did her sister. Now, at her son's Bar Mitzvah, she carefully includes her non-Jewish family members in the service, and the result is a great feeling of acceptance, love and unity. Date: 10/1/2004Tribal vs. Covenantal Jewish Identity Schwarz, Rabbi Sidney Professional advice that "the Jewish community would do well to soften its boundaries" since so many Jews attribute their social and political justice work to their Jewish roots and traditions. Most surveys, like the National Jewish Population survey, exclude those expressions of Jewish identity in defining "Who is a Jew?" Date: 11/15/2005Study of Interfaith Kids Upends Ideas of Identity Siegel, Jennifer A news article about a recent study of children of interfaith families which found that they maintain strong cultural ties to the Jewish community, despite low levels of religious identification. Date: 8/16/2005What's Different about Gay Wedding Ceremonies? Jerris, Rabbi Miriam Professional view from a Secular Humanist rabbi describing gay wedding ceremonies she has developed and officiated. Date: 6/1/2003A Converstion with Eugene L. Pogany, author of In My Brother's Image: Twin Brothers Separated by Faith After the Holocaust Bolton-Fasman, Judith Profile of Eugene L. Pogany, author of In My Brother's Image: Twin Brothers Separated by Faith After the Holocaust, about his family's experience with conversion and the Holocaust.. Date: 2/1/2001Activism as an Aphrodisiac Eisenfeld, Sue Personal narrative about how wanting to improve the world drew an interfaith couple together and keeps them united. Date: 11/15/2005Cultural Judaism Opens the Door for Alienated Jews Baron, Myrna Op-ed from the executive director of the Center for Cultural Judaism explaining how cultural Judaism is not a "lazy man's' approach to Judaism--it's based in scholarship and reason. Date: 4/1/2004Expanded Line Mann, Paulette Personal narrative about a grandparent who chooses to accept her children's choices and make the best of it. Date: 11/29/2005Learning Tolerance and Compassion from My Husband Amir, Nina The personal narrative of a Jewish woman whose Southern Baptist husband helped to teach her about tolerance when he converted to Judaism. Date: 1/1/2003Interfaith or Intercultural? Feder, Sue Personal narrative about why the marriage between a Jew and a Catholic from different socio-economic backgrounds worked out better than marriages between two lower-middle class Jews or two middle-middle class Catholics: similar values and outlooks on life mattered more. Date: 10/1/2003Musings about My Catholic Grandchildren from the Desk of Rabbi Miriam Jerris Jerris, Rabbi Miriam Professional advice and personal narrative from a rabbi who realizes that her Christian grandchildren do not know her very well, and is unsure of how they can connect on a more personal level at such a young age. Date: 7/1/2004Welcoming the New Jews Forward Editorial Reprinted editorial concluding that the Jewish community needs to do a better job of welcoming kids of interfaith families, based on a study that found they maintain strong cultural ties to the Jewish community, despite low levels of affiliation. Date: 8/16/2005A Quilt? A Stew? Who Are We, Anyway? Arking, Linda Personal narrative about how one mutli-cultural and multi-faith family celebrates Thanksgiving: with food from each culture, reminiscences about the family's and recipes' origins, and lots of talk about thankfulness. Date: 11/1/2002New Pathway: Ann Arbor's Jewbilation Offers Another Option for Intermarrieds. Dorfman, Shelli Liebman A news article about Jewbilation, a philosophy that incorporations many Jewish traditions and is designed for interfaith families. Date: 1/1/2004Challenges for an Interfaith Grandmother Brodley, Flo Personal narrative from a Jewish grandma who was nonobservant but wants her intermarried daughter to have her kids bar mitzvahed. Date: 7/1/2004Passover in Paris Cohen, Jayne Professional view and personal narrative from a woman who made Passover seders in Paris for her daughter and her friends, including recipes. Date: 3/27/2006A Multicultural Passover, a Solemn Easter, and a Celebration of Spring Jerris, Ph.D., Rabbi Miriam S. Professional view and personal narrative from the director of the Society for Humanistic Judaism about Passover and Easter celebrations in her household. Date: 3/27/2006Passing Down Identity Edni, Ariana Personal narrative from the daughter of an Italian Catholic mom and an Israeli dad reflecting on her Jewish identity, and her gaps in Jewish knowledge. Date: 3/15/2005The Winds of Change through the Window of Interfaith Marriages Weintraub, David A personal narrative about am intermarried Jew and Irish Catholic who realize that their religions share the same priniples and values. Date: 11/1/2005Rashevski’s Tango Explores What Makes Someone Jewish Coon, Cheryl F. Review of film about interfaith relationships in one family and how the Holocaust affected them. Date: 11/29/2005 The Shepherd’s Tale Brawarsky, Sandee Article about an author who spends time with a shepherd born to interfaith parents in Austria, in an attempt by the author to learn about his ancestors and the anti-Semitism that killed them. Date: 8/2/2005Culturally Catholic McMahon, Teresa The personal narrative of a woman who chose not to convert to Judaism because she feels as though she culturally relates to her Catholic upbringing. Date: 4/1/2004Former Teen Heartthrob Finds Peace in Academia after Years in Hollywood Gordon, Buzzy Profile of Robby Benson who started in The Chosen and is now moving to North Carolina to teach at Appalachian State University. Date: 7/1/2003Translating Between Two Worlds: An Interview with Rebecca Walker Bolton Fasman, Judith Profile of Rebecca Walker, daughter or Alice Walker and Mel Leventhal, and author of her new memoir Black White and Jewish: Autobiography of a Shifting Self. Date: 1/1/2001High Holidays, New York, 2002 Avila, Linda Arking Personal narrative and general information article about a secular humanistic intermarried couple, and the reasons why they chose Secular Humanism, for example, its philosophy that "for secular households, the difference in faith is not a problem," and both partners are not only welcomed, but are equals. Date: 8/1/2002Thank God My Husband Is a Former Presbyterian/Quaker Agnostic Eisenfeld, Sue Personal narrative from an intermarried Jewish woman who says her Jewish identity is in her religious practice, it's in her salivary glands, her genes, her brain and her temperament. Date: 10/1/2004Opening Our Gates and Arms: Adopting Judaism, Adopting Jews Jerris, Rabbi Miriam A Secular Humanistic rabbi describes their process of adopting Judaism. Date: 4/25/2006Jewish Knowledge Reaches Deep into Howard Dean's Past--and His Home Berger, Matthew E. Interview with Howard Dean that focuses on his intermarriage, his knowledge and practicing of Jewish culture and rituals, and the local Jewish community's response. Cokie and Steve Reveal the Secrets of Their Happiness Sher, Cindy Profile of Cokie Roberts which focuses on her intermarriage to Steve Roberts and the story of how they've raised their children in both faiths. Date: 8/1/2001We Don't Need No Stinkin' Religion: A New Cultural Center Caters to the Secular Members of the Tribe Pilcher, Brad A news article discussing controversial organizations that attempt to reach out to secular and cultural Jews. Date: 8/1/2003Irish Literary Figures Talk About Religion, Writing and Intermarriage Thompson, Marlena Interview with David Marcus and Ita Daly, an intermarried Irish couple, both of whom are accomplished writers. Date: 3/1/2002Approaching Our Twenty-Seventh Anniversary Fischel, Janice G. Personal narrative about an intermarried couple who have created and raised a culturally Jewish family. Date: 6/1/2000An Unorthodox View of Who's Orthodox Suissa, David An opinion/editorial article that comments on the orthodox actions of many secular Jews and promotes that all Jews benefit from sharing with and learning from one another. Date: 7/1/2003My Religion, My Choice Feinstein, Tracy The personal narrative of a woman who was raised secularly religious by interfaith parents and decided as a young adult to be converted to Judaism to confirm her faith, despite the fact that lineage already recognized her as a Jew. Date: 11/1/2003Donor Offers $10 Million to Fund, but with Secular String Attached Berkofsky, Joe Reprinted news article about the stipulation of a large-scale philanthropist that his money be used to finance only cultural Jewish education. Date: 4/1/2004The Yiddishkeit of Bacon Friedman, Dan Personal narrative about an intermarried man who helped his in-laws decorate a Christmas tree, but considers it a secular celebration. Eschewing the Supernatural, Humanistic Group Offers Alternative Tugend, Tom Reprinted general information about Humanistic Judaism, including its history, theology, structure, and direction. Date: 9/1/2004Not Your Typical Jewish Family Karasik, Johanna Personal narrative about a daughter of divorced interfaith parents whose father decided to hold a Hanukkah/Shabbat celebration and wanted her to teach their multi-faith extended family about Jewish traditions. Date: 12/1/2003Stories We Haven't Yet Heard: A Review of The Flying Camel Fischer, Catherine Review of The Flying Camel: Essays on Identity by Women of African and Middle Eastern Jewish Heritage, Edited by Loolwa Khazzoom, a collection of memoirs that explore the complexities of being a Mizrahi-Jewish woman. Date: 5/1/2004Is Observance Fanaticism? Artson, Rabbi Bradley Shavit A rabbi's advice to a man whose reform family rejects his "fanatic" Jewish lifestyle. Date: 2/1/2001Tangled Roots: A Review Ronnie Friedland Review of Tangled Roots, a documentary about a child of interfaith marriage's exploration into her Jewish and German roots. Date: 3/1/2003Turning Swords into Plowshares Litman, Rabbi Jane An opinion/editorial article discussing modern America's view of Judaism and how some people wrongly believe that American Jews have lost their Jewish identities. Date: 10/1/2003Intermarriage Has Our Blessing Baron, Myrna General information about Humanistic Judaism, its doctrine, practices, and lifecycle ceremonies Date: 11/1/2000Celebrating the New Year Festivals Humanistically: Bringing Intercultural Families Closer Together Jerris, Rabbi Miriam Professional view from a Humanistic Rabbi about how the Humanistic Judaism Rosh Hashanah service differs from traditional services: Humanist services are more inclusive of interfaith families, and more focused on the values of self-reflection and forgiveness rather than God's role in determining "who will live and who will die." Date: 9/1/2004Will Secular Humanism Appeal to Israelis? Sedan, Gil News article on the introduction of secular humanistic Judaism to Israel. Date: 4/1/2004Progressive Politics and Jewish Camp, Combined Forbath, Theo A personal narrative about a politically progressive camp where interfaith kids with progressive values feel comfortable. Date: 2/14/2006Brother Born Again: A Review Friedland, Ronnie A review of Brother Born Again, a film that explores how a child brought up in a secular Jewish environment turns to Christianity after the traumatic death of his father. Date: 6/1/2001Could It Happen Here? A Review of Philip Roth's The Plot Against America Coon, Cheryl F. Review of The Plot Against America, by Philip Roth, a work of fiction about American Jews during the Holocaust era. Date: 5/10/2005Israeli Arab Stirs the Pot with Absurdist Film on Middle East Tugend, Tom Review of Divine Intervention, about three Israelis bound by love but separated by borders and checkpoints. Date: 5/1/2003A Novel about Three Secular Jewish Friends and Their Non-Jewish Wives Miller, Susan Katz A review of Club Revelation by Allan Appel, a mediocre novel about two intermarried couples who live together in an apartment building that recalls '60s-era communes. Date: 8/1/2003An Excellent Reference: But Not for "Dummies" Thompson, Marlena Review of Judaism for Dummies by Rabbi Ted Falcon, Ph.D. and David Blatner, a reference that can be used for Jews and non-Jews alike. Date: 9/1/2001It's All About the Food Feder, Sue Personal narrative about a Jewish-Catholic interfaith couple who like different foods, but don't let it get between them. Date: 10/1/2004My Opinion: Ethnicity is Not Judaism Essex, David An opinion/editorial discussing how many converts to the Jewish faith feel that they are unwelcome and that they don't belong. Date: 1/1/2003San Francisco‘s Jewish Leftist Tradition Reemerges in Documentary Fox, Michael Review of Following Sean, a documentary about a boy who grew up with hippie parents in the sixties and compares his life to the filmmaker's life and family of Jewish leftists. Date: 1/31/2006 Opposites Attract: A Review of The Physics of Sunset Miller, Susan Katz
A Review of The Physics of Sunset by Jane Vandenburgh, a novel about an intermarried couple in California and the forces beyond their control. Date: 1/1/2000Reactions to "Jerusalem," A Play about an Intermarriage, and a Conversation with the Playwright Friedland, Ronnie Profile of Seth Greenland and review of his new play, "Jerusalem" about an intermarried couple. Date: 10/1/2002TV Series Looks at Family Life of Secular Jew Who Married A Jew-by-Choice: The Education of Max Bickford Friedland, Ronnie Review of The Education of Max Bickford, a TV show that starred Richard Dreyfus as a skeptical Jewish professor whose ex-wife converted to Judaism and was killed in a car crash. Date: 11/1/2001North America's Reform Rabbis Adopt Comprehensive New Conversion Guidelines, Welcoming Converts to Judaism with "Joy and Encouragement" Central Conference of American Rabbis A news article discussing the new guidelines for conversion passed by North America's reform rabbis. Date: 7/1/2001Will America's Loving Embrace Lead to the End of Judaism? Groner, Jonathan Review of Jew vs. Jew: The Struggle for the Soul of American Jewry by Samuel G. Freedman, a recent history of the fall of the ethnic Eastern-European collective Jewish identity, and what Judaism looks like in America today. Date: 8/1/2001The Hour: Open a Secular Door to Judaism Fein, Leonard Forward columnist Leonard Fein raises the possibility of secular conversion. Date: 4/25/2006Interfaith Families and Secular Judaism Seid, Cantor and Rabbi Judith General information about how interfaith couples and ceremonies are handled by the Secular Humanistic Jewish movement. Date: 5/8/2007Can You Raise a Child Without God? Burk, Ken Personal narrative from a man raised in a Secular Humanist congregation attempting to raise his 2-year-old daughter in one. Date: 5/8/2007A Passion for Division Weintraub, David, with Weintraub, Elizabeth Review of Mel Gibson's film, Passion of the Christ, from the perspective of a Jewish man married to a non-Jewish woman. Date: 3/1/2004The Four Questions Meet the Four Noble Truths Crawford, Louise Review of Haggadah for Jews & Buddhists by a secular Jew who practices meditation. Date: 3/27/2007Candidate with a Jewish Family Reaches Out to Potential Voters, about Dean. Berger, Matthew Profile of Howard Dean, an intermarried man running for the Democratic nomination for president with special attention to his positions on Israel and Jewish relations. Date: 5/1/2003A Secular Welcoming Jerris, Rabbi Miriam S. General information about, and ideas for, Secular Humanistic Jewish birth ceremonies. Date: 5/22/2007Intermarriage and The Future Of American Jewry Thompson, Marlena Review of The Vanishing American Jew: In Search of Jewish Identity for the Next Century by Alan Dershowitz and Embracing the Stranger: Intermarriage and the Future of the American Jewish Community by Ellen Jaffe McClain, both of which explore intermarriage among American Jews and what it means for the Jewish future. Date: 11/1/1998Slugger Set To Skip Game on Yom Kippur Eden, Ami A news article that discusses the decision of Jewish baseball player Shawn Green to skip the game on Yom Kippur and Madonna's promotion of Kabbalah. Date: 10/1/2004Is Wanting to Share a Jewish Partner's Religious Commitment a Sufficient Basis for Conversion? What Do YOU Think? Moment Magazine A survey addressing different opinions on conversion to Judaism in order to share a religious commitment with a romantic partner. Date: 11/1/2001Our Non-Religious Jewish Wedding Rockler-Gladen, Naomi Personal narrative about the wedding of a Jewish woman and her husband, who came from a devout Christian family but has since rejected organized religion. Date: 6/19/2007Avoiding Jewish "Nothingness" Felsen, Michael Review of Secular Jewishness for Our Time, a compilation of 20th century essays on the meaning of secular Judaism. Date: 5/8/2007"Mazel Tov" Instead of "Oy Vey" Friedland, Ronnie Audio interview with Humanistic Rabbi Adam Chalom about his approach to interfaith couples and families. Date: 5/8/2007Our Secular Humanistic Seder Freeman, Deborah Personal narrative from an intermarried woman about her secular Passover celebrations. Date: 5/8/2007The High Holidays Without the One on High Felsen, Michael Description of a secular Rosh Hashanah service at Boston Workmen's Circle. Date: 8/6/2007Is the Popularity of Jewish Culture Sustainable? Tigay, Chanan News story about the growing popularity of Jewish arts and culture like Matisyahu and Heeb. Date: 5/8/2007147 Ways to Be Jewish Tisch, Jesse Review of I Am Jewish, a collection of essays (mostly) by famous people on what being Jewish means, inspired by Wall Street Journal reporter Daniel Pearl's famous last words. Date: 7/31/2007Doctor, Doctor, There's a Joke in my Judaism!: A Conversation with Adam Gopnik Freudenheim, Susan Profile of Adam Gopnik, the intermarried writer for the New Yorker. Date: 6/5/2007Humanistic Judaism Disciples Mourn Their Founder Killed in Car Accident Harris, Ben News story about the death of Rabbi Sherwin Wine, founder of the Society for Humanistic Judaism. Date: 7/31/2007 |



